Abstinence is the best policy and what God wants for us.
I pray over my marriage. I pray that I would be able to show my wife how special she is to me and that she would do the same for me. I pray that we experience a deeper love in our marriage like we never have before.
As men we naturally lean towards logic and harshness instead of emotion and understanding. We often try to fix before we listen. At least this is true for me. Father, make me gentle in spirit and word toward my wife.
I pray that you would impress on the hearts of husbands and wives the vital importance of sex and romance. Show us husbands how necessary it is that we pursue our wives emotionally and romantically.